Using a vibrator during masturbation for an intense orgasm

Masturbating is fun and educational. By pleasuring yourself, you find out what you like and how your body responds to certain touches. Besides stimulating your erogenous zones with your hands, you can also pleasure yourself with a vibrator. Using a vibrator during masturbation can even lead to a more intense orgasm. How? We’ll tell you all about it in this article!

Using a vibrator: will it work for me?

The judgement and shame that comes with owning a vibrator is slowly becoming a thing of the past. About 75% of all women worldwide own a vibrator. Shame is still one of the main reasons for women not to purchase a sex toy. Fortunately, it’s now possible to buy sex toys online. They are delivered to your doorstep in a discreet box, so nobody knows what you ordered.

If you’re thinking about purchasing a sex toy, know that you’re definitely not alone. Whether or not a toy fits your needs is a matter of simply trying it out.

Which vibrator is the best choice for me?

There are dozens of types of vibrators for women. Which types are available and what and how they stimulate your body is explained below. This way you can easily find the vibrator that is right for you.

Clitoris vibrator

The best sex toy for women is, without a doubt, the air pressure vibrator. It was first created by Womanizer a couple of years ago, but now there are many different clitoris vibrators with air pressure stimulation. A clitoris vibrator is a sex toy with a soft tip that you place over your clitoris. Your clitoris is then stimulated with air pressure pulses, which feels like oral stimulation. It is especially suitable for women who need clitoral stimulation in order to reach a climax. And let’s be honest: that’s practically every woman. Do you tend to focus on your clitoris during masturbation? Then an air pressure vibrator is perfect for you.

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  We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Vibrator
  We-Vibe
  £123.99

Rabbit vibrator

This might be the most well-known vibrator in existence: the rabbit vibrator. This type of vibrator has a long shaft and a stimulator at the front (often shaped like bunny ears) to stimulate your clitoris. Some of these vibrators even have a anal stimulator on the other side for triple stimulation. This toy is suitable for women who want to simply lean back and enjoy. All you have to do is hold your vibrator in place and it will do the work for you.

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  EasyToys Lily Vibrator - Pink
  EasyToys - Vibe Collection
  £33.99 £16.99
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  Vice - Double Vibrator
  PMV20
  £82.99 £58.99

Wand vibrators

Wand vibrators can be used to stimulate the clitoris. The round head and powerful vibrations lead to a thrilling climax, even for women who have a difficult time reaching an orgasm in general. There are even attachments available that you can use to transform your wand vibrator into a G-spot stimulator for example. So wand vibrators are especially suitable for women who have trouble reaching an orgasm and women who enjoy intense stimulation.

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  EasyToys Mini Wand Vibrator - Purple
  EasyToys - Wand Collection
  £41.99 £24.99

G-spot vibrator

Does stimulating your G-spot give you pleasure? It’s much easier to use a special vibrator for this than using your own fingers. You have to create a ‘come here’ movement towards your belly button with your fingers, but a G-spot vibrator already has a bent tip, so it can easily reach your pleasure spot. This toy is a great choice for women who love G-spot stimulation and don’t mind fingering themselves at the same time in order to enjoy double pleasure and intense orgasms.

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  The Rose G-Spot Vibrator
  Bloom
  £82.99 £66.99
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  Ioba - OhMyG G-Spot Vibrator - Pink
  Ioba.Toys
  £107.99 £74.99

Using a vibrator during masturbation

So you’ve bought your first vibrator and now it’s waiting for you to use it. Does this make you nervous? There’s really nothing to worry about!

Get to know your vibrator

Get to know your new toy simply by turning it on. You don’t have to do anything else yet. Push the buttons to change the vibration pattern, so you can discover how it vibrates and what speed levels are available. You’ll notice that even just holding it in your hand feels pleasant.

Experiment without focussing on an orgasm

Is it difficult for you to reach a climax? Using a vibrator during masturbation can help. But first, just focus on using your toy without trying to have an orgasm. This puts less pressure on your solo sex experiment, so you can simply enjoy the vibrations your toy offers.

Use your vibrator to have an orgasm

Using your vibrator in itself may not get you aroused. Many women need physical and mental stimulation. You can find the latter in your imagination, erotic audio, or porn. If you’re sufficiently aroused, let the vibrator glide over your body. Once you reach your most senstive spot, turn on the vibrator at the lowest speed. Now you can slowly explore what your toy has to offer. If you need more stimulation, simply increase the vibration level.

Tip: Don’t forget to use lubricant with your toy. This makes the vibrator effortlessly glide over and inside your body, and it makes the whole experience much more comfortable. Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys: other lubricants can damage the silicone layer of your toy.

Use your hands and your sex toy at the same time

If you love stimulating your clitoris with your fingers, but you miss the feeling of penetration, a realistic vibrator may be the right choice for you. Or you could go for the Womanizer Duo, which has two motors: one for your clitoris and one for your G-spot. You can use the two motors simultaneously or separately.

Do you want to keep your hands free? Then the rabbit vibrator we mentioned before is probably the best choice for you. This vibrator stimulates both your clitoris and your G-spot.

Use your sex toy together with your partner

Want some extra intense stimulation? Your sex toy can give your sex life with your partner a great boost. With an extra pair of hands and a mouth, you can experience next level stimulation and an amazing orgasm. It may feel a little strange using a vibrator during masturbation while your partner is with you, but trust us: it’s worth it.

Also read: Exciting sex games for couples

Clean your sex toy after use

It’s a bit of an anti-climax, but cleaning your vibrator is very important. If you clean your toy well, it stays in great shape and you can enjoy your toy for years to come. At the same time, you protect your body from bacteria and infections. You can clean your sex toy with lukewarm water and mild soap, but also with a special toy cleaner, which is faster and easier.

Also read: How do you choose your first vibrator?