Vibrator versus dildo: what are the differences?

Are you in the mood for a new sex toy or are you considering buying your first sex toy? Then you may not know how to choose between a vibrator or a dildo. What are the differences exactly? Why would you choose a vibrator over a dildo or the other way around? We will tell you everything you need to know about vibrators versus dildos and we will give you tips on how to choose a good toy.

Vibrator versus dildo: the differences

Vibrators and dildos are available in many different designs and sizes. But there is one important difference between dildos and vibrators in general: a vibrator vibrates and a dildo doesn’t. So keep that in mind when you are buying a sex toy. Are you simply looking for that filled-up feeling during penetration? Or do you also want to enjoy vibrations, thrusting motions, or double or even triple stimulation?

The most important features of a dildo

A dildo is often shaped like a penis. It can look very realistic, with a round glans, veined shaft, and balls for example. There are also dildos with a more abstract look, like glass dildos. Dildos are very straightforward: they are shaped like a penis and you can use them to penetrate yourself or your partner. A strap-on dildo even makes it possible for a woman to penetrate their partner.

Besides a pleasant filled-up feeling, you can also use a dildo to stimulate your G-spot. All you need to do is guide it to the right spot. You can use your other hand to stimulate your other erogenous areas, such as your clitoris or your nipples.

The most important features of a vibrator

A vibrator is a sex toy that features buzzing, vibration, or pulsation. There are many kinds of vibrators: with multiple motors, for clitoris stimulation, for internal stimulation, with attachments, for anal use, and more.

In this blog post, we will focus on the classic vibrator. It is – like a dildo – shaped like a penis. It can have a realistic design, but it usually has a more abstract look. Most classic vibrators are oblong and smooth, making them easy to insert. We specifically compare classic vibrators with classic dildos here, as they are most similar in terms of shape and use.

Vibrator: just like you want it

You can use a vibrator to stimulate yourself or your lover internally, just like a dildo. The difference in comparison to a dildo is the vibrations that offer extra stimulation. There are different types:

• Vibrations generated by one or multiple motors;
• Thrusting movements, like the top of the shaft moving up and down;
• Rotation settings, such as beads in the shaft that rotate in various speeds and patterns;
• Pulsating movements that start slow, increase in intensity, and then slow down again;
• Patterns: a certain pattern of vibrations and speeds that you can adjust yourself, or you can let it surprise you.

You can often even adjust the speed of the vibrations and pulsating or thrusting settings. This way you can set the vibrations just the way you like it.

Anal vibrator versus dildo

Apart from classic vibrators, there are of course also other kinds of sex toys. A vibrator and dildo for anal use for example. Again, the most important difference between the two is the vibrations. Anal dildos have a bent shaft that stimulates a man’s prostate or a woman’s G-spot. An anal vibrator usually also has a somewhat bent shaft, as well as a motor that offers pleasant vibrations.

Vibrator versus dildo: what is the best choice for me?

With a dildo, you will have to use your hands actively by moving the dildo up and down. A vibrator will do the work for you. The only thing you have to do is guide it to the right place and keep it there. Are you looking for a sex toy mainly for that filled-up feeling during penetration? Then a dildo is a good choice.

Do you want double stimulation, for example with a toy that stimulates your clitoris as well? Or do you want vibrations to tickle your G-spot? Then a vibrator is probably the best choice for you.

How to choose the right dildo?

Before you buy a dildo, there are a few important questions you have to ask yourself. If you know the answers, then you can start looking for a dildo that suits your preferences.

• How large do you want the dildo to be? Are you into large dildos, are you going for a medium size, or is a small dildo more your cup of tea?
• Which material do you want your dildo to be made of? A glass dildo will last a lifetime for example, while a plastic dildo might have to be replaced after a couple of years.
• Does the dildo have to have a realistic design or not?
• Does the dildo need to have a suction cup? You can use a suction cup to attach the dildo to your tile floor or smooth door, and penetrate yourself that way.
• Do you want to be able to use the dildo in combination with a strap-on harness?
• How much money are you willing to spend on your toy?

How to choose the right vibrator?

In addition to the questions above, you can also ask yourself this before buying a vibrator:

• Does it need to be waterproof, so you can use it in the shower and bath?
• Do you want a vibrator that runs on batteries or do you prefer a rechargeable vibrator?
• Do you want to be able to enjoy other types of stimulation as well apart from penetration? For example clitoris or G-spot stimulation? Then you might want to consider a rabbit vibrator.
• Which types of vibration settings does your vibrator have to have?
• How do you want to control the vibrations: with an app, a remote control, or buttons on the toy itself?
• How many vibration settings and speeds does your vibrator need?

Do you have the answers to all these questions? Then you can check which vibrators or dildos match your preferences. We hope you have a lot of fun with your new toy!