Find your vibe
Do you ever talk about your sexual experiences with your friends, or is that difficult? Many people still struggle with talking about sexuality without being secretive or laughing about it nervously. If this is true for you, if you’re having a hard time opening up, or if you want to do some research beforehand, we are here to help you. If you want to buy a sex toy and you decided that it’s going to be a vibrator, then you have a lot to choose from. The most important thing is to find what is right for you. We’re not talking about colour, material, or intensity (although those are important as well), but about the vibe that is right for your body. The feeling that a vibrator with a certain technique gives you, is not the same as vibrators with other techniques. You can choose internal or external stimulation, but you could also go for an experience that simulates oral sex. Find your vibe with our guide.
Find your vibe: a short history of the vibrator
Vibrators have been around since 1880. And like other electronics, vibrators have evolved over the years. Nowadays, they are available in many shapes and sizes, but for over a hundred years, there was only one kind of vibrator: the classic vibrator. In 1983, the Japanese company Vibratex launched the first ever rabbit vibrator on the American market. It was a revolution; the first sex toy that combined vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Later another version was produced that not only offered vaginal and clitoral stimulation, but also anal stimulation. After a certain Sex and the City episode aired in 1998, vibrators are not as taboo as they used to be. Magazines also started to focus on vibrators and other sex toys more and more. In 2020, you can even find vibrators in local pharmacies.
Which vibe is right for you?
Nowadays, there are many vibrators that are specially designed for female sexual pleasure. There are vibrators that solely focus on clitoral stimulation, vibrators that use vibrations, vibrators that work with air pressure, and massage wands that function as vibrators. What is right for you is not for us to decide, but by explaining the various types of vibrators that are available, we can help you find your vibe.
Air pressure vibes
Womanizer was the first to develop a clitoris vibrator that works with air pressure. This type of vibrator is solely for external stimulation. A clitoris vibrator has a (removable) silicone cap that you place on your clitoris. When you turn the vibrator on, air pressure waves stimulate your clitoris. If you enjoy oral stimulation, this could be a good match for you. The air pressure waves create a pulsating effect and simulate a sucking feeling. There are various air pressure vibrators available: from inexpensive vibrators to more high quality toys by Womanizer or Lora DiCarlo, which offer more special features, like vibrators that only turn on when they come into contact with your body. The best thing is that you can always switch between intensity levels. This allows you to be in complete control. There are also air pressure vibrators for double stimulation. These stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot, like the Womanizer Duo and Lora DiCarlo Osé 2 double vibrator.
Massage wand
Although the Magic Wand was created as a massage tool, women quickly discovered that it could also be used as a sex toy. They mainly praised the wand massagers for their powerful vibrations. Women who have trouble reaching a climax can often get an orgasm with a wand massager. Nowadays, there are many different wand massagers from many different brands. A massage wand is usually very large, but don’t let that scare you: it’s only for external stimulation. You can use it to stimulate your clitoris and other sensitive spots with gentle to intense vibrations. There are separate attachments available for most massage wands. They offer possibilities for G-spot stimulation or extra clitoral stimulation for example. If you have trouble reaching an orgasm, a wand massager might be a good choice for you.
Pulsating vibes
With pulsating vibrators, you can stimulate specific sensitive spots. The pulsations create a sort of throbbing feeling on your most sensitive spots. If we’re talking about G-spot stimulation for example, you can compare it to the ‘come here’ movement that your partner makes when they stimulate your G-spot. Of course pulsating vibrators also feature various settings, so you can adjust it just the way you like it. Do you enjoy stimulating your G-spot and are you looking for a vibrator that can help with that? The OhMyG vibrator is a sex toy with a luxurious, feminine look that stimulates your G-spot with its pulsating knob. The innovative brand Lora DiCarlo (for women, by women) offers various pulsating vibrators.
Vibes with sound waves
Do you enjoy oral stimulation? Then a sound wave vibrator can be a good match for you. Vibrators that work with sound waves are similar to air pressure vibrators. However, the sensation is a little different; the don’t just provide a sucking feeling, but also a light pulsating feeling.
Vibrating toys
The most well-known vibrators are of course the classic vibrators. You can use these for penetration and internal stimulation, but you can also use them to stimulate your clitoris. There are many different kinds of classic vibrators. If you’re going on holiday, you can take a small and compact bullet vibrator with you for example. Rabbit vibrator As mentioned before, you can experience double stimulation with a rabbit vibrator, which has a special stimulator for your clitoris. Both the shaft and the stimulator often feature a separate motor that you can control together or separately. With the triple Vice vibrator by PMV20 you can even enjoy stimulation from three powerful motors. Couple vibrators Besides the classic vibrators, there are also couple vibrators that you can use together with your (penetrating) partner and that offer extra pleasure to both of you. You wear this type of vibrator in your vagina with the stimulator on your clitoris. Examples are the Chorus, Unite, and Jive vibrators by We-Vibe. Vibrating eggs Vibrating eggs are mini vibrators that you insert in your vagina. You can use the remote control to turn on the vibrations and adjust the vibration speed and pattern. You can use a vibrating egg to stimulate yourself, but you can also hand over control to your partner by giving them the remote.
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