How to: cunnilingus
Do you want to pleasure your female sex partner by performing cunnilingus? And do you want to know how to do it right? From an explanation of the female reproductive organs to tips for performing cunnilingus: you will find everything about orally pleasuring a woman in this blog post.
What is cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus is orally pleasuring a woman in and around her vagina and vulva. Other words for this oral act are going down on someone, licking pussy and eating pussy. It all comes down to the same thing: stimulating her clitoris, labia, the vagina opening and every spot around it with your mouth.
Where is the clitoris?
In order to know where to perform cunnilingus, it is important to know how the female reproductive organ is formed. We can differentiate between vagina and vulva. The vagina is the internal stretchy tube that runs from the vagina opening (where fingers, penis or sex toy are inserted) to the cervix.
The vulva is the external part of the reproductive organ. This includes the inner and outer labia, the clitoris and the mons pubis. The clitoris can be found right below the top part of the inner labia, on the side of her stomach. Below that you can find the urethra, then the vagina opening and below that, the anus. The visible part of the clitoris is a small bump about as large as a pea. We also call it the clitoral glans. This contains so many nerve endings that direct stimulation can be too much. So be careful when you perform cunnilingus!
How to perform cunnilingus?
There isn’t one right way to perform cunnilingus. There are many different options and whether or not it is enjoyable for your partner mainly depends on what your partner likes. It is good to know that about 80 percent of women needs clitoral stimulation to reach a climax. So give the clitoris the attention it deserves! Of course your partner can tell you what she likes, so ask her about it. This way you will know how to make it as enjoyable as possible for her. Communication and trust is the most important aspect of such an intimate act like cunnilingus.
Different ways to perform cunnilingus
What one woman likes, isn’t necessarily enjoyable for another woman. By practising, you can find out what she likes. For example, you can gently lick around her clitoris and teasingly touch it every now and then. The more aroused she it, the more you can lick her clitoris. You can do this gently, but also hard. You can softly suck it or you can make it more intense. Besides licking the clitoris, you can also tease her by kissing the outer labia first and slowly move your mouth to the clitoris or vagina opening. When she is wet, you can also softly blow on her clitoris. Because this is wet, it will feel cold.
Use you fingers!
Don’t forget the magic of using your fingers. You can use your fingers to stimulate her vaginally while you are licking her. The G-spot can be found about 5 centimeters deep into her vagina. Stimulate it at the same time as the clitoris and in all likelihood she will have a very intense orgasm.
Positions for great cunnilingus
On her back, on the bed
There are various positions to perform great cunnilingus. The most obvious opsition is her lying on the bed on her back and you kneeling before her. For her, this is very comfortable, but it does limit your movements.
She stands, you sit
When your sex partner is standing and you are sitting on the ground, then you have the right height to perform cunnilingus. This is a perfect position, because you can move around freely. Do you want to pleasure her in the shower? Go down on your knees and warm her up.
Lying down with her on top
Another sexy position is where you are lying on your back and your partner is sitting on your face with her vagina. She is on her knees, so you can easily lick her.
Position 69
You’ve probably heard of it: position 69. With this position, you can pleasure each other orally at the same time. One partner is on top with his or her penis or vagina on the mouth of the other partner. The person on top can simultaneously perform cunnilingus or give a blowjob.
Sex toys that simulate oral sex
Not every man or woman wants to pleasure his or her partner orally. And singles also like to enjoy cunnilingus. Fortunately, there are various exciting sex toys available for this. An air pressure vibrator is a vibrator that focusses on clitoral stimulation. It has a soft silicone tip which is placed on the clitoris. It uses air pressure waves to provide a gentle thrusting or sucking feeling, which can be compared to the feeling of oral sex. These are our most popular air pressure vibrators:
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Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2 - GoldSatisfyer£57.99£28.99 -
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Womanizer Premium Black & GoldWomanizer£156.99£103.99 -
Womanizer Liberty - Powder BlueWomanizer£81.99£74.99
How to perform cunnilingus safely
Although the chance is slim, you can get an STD from oral sex, because there is direct contact between the mucus membranes in the mouth and the vagina. In order to prevent transmission, you can use a dental dam. This is safer for you, but also for your sex partner. When you have a cold sore for example, she can get herpes on her vagina. And bacteria in your mouth can lead to a vaginal infection.
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