Tips for hot evenings when it’s cold outside

Listen: we really understand that you want to binge the entire season of Squid Game in a few nights… but it’s not really romantic. Make time for some hot nights, even when the weather turns cold. How? With our tips, of course!

Sex in different seasons

It’s no secret that many couples’ sex lives change with the seasons. In the summer, we feel sexy, dress lightly and want more sex because we see more of each other. In the autumn and winter, we retreat to our homes. In addition, the lack of sunlight affects our sex hormones. The higher our melatonin levels, the more blocked our sex hormones. That’s why it’s not surprising that in autumn, you’d rather curl up under a blanket on the sofa than get laid. Still, there are plenty of exciting ideas for hot evenings.

Write an erotic story and let your lover read it

Confession: recently I let my partner read one of the erotic stories I had written for this website. It was a great success, because it turned both him and me on. Me, because it was about my ex, and him, because it’s just a nice story. Write an exciting story and give it to your lover. Want to bet that it’ll be a success?

Also read: Kink and fetishism? Completely normal, so express your true self!

Hot evenings in front of the fireplace

A bit of a cliché, but still a gamechanger. Only suitable if the kids (if any) are in bed and you don’t have any housemates who can disturb you. Make sure you have a nice warm fire (or a crackling fire on your TV) for that romantic atmosphere, put a blanket on the floor in front of it and select a sultry playlist. Get down on the blanket and see what you feel like. Deep conversations, more intimate kissing than you’ve done in months, or endless lovemaking in this romantic atmosphere: it’s up to you!

Gaze at the stars

Choose a night with few clouds and a good view of the moon, in a place with little light pollution. For example, a spot in the countryside. With one blanket to put on the ground and one to snuggle under, you’re sure to enjoy a romantic evening. And since you have an extra blanket with you, this is the perfect moment to see how you like outdoor sex.

Also read: The best places for outdoor sex

Hot evenings in autumn: give your partner a new toy

Nothing shows your desire for a hot evening than a new sex toy! Surprise yourself with a sexy toy, choose something nice for your lover, or go for a toy you can use together. Are you totally in the mood for something new? Get the new Naughty&Nice advent calendar with 24 erotic surprises.

Organise a wine tasting at your home

Do a private wine or beer tasting at home or select something nice and luxurious without alcohol. It doesn’t have to be complicated. A box filled with delicious luxury chocolates and trying to guess what flavour each is can be just as fun. To make it a bit exciting, you can earn a reward of your partner’s choosing if you guess correctly.

Dress up in a sexy outfit

There’s nothing wrong with wearing sweatpants. But there’s also no harm in dressing up in something exciting once in a while. At least, if you like it as much as your partner does. It’s always fun to surprise someone: for example by wearing a long coat with only a sexy bra underneath. Or opt for suspenders with stockings instead of tights.

Visit a swinger’s club or a kinky party

While you can do most of the activities above from home or your garden, you really need to get out there for this one. Enjoy an afternoon of getting dolled up and then feast your eyes on a kinky erotic party or swingers club. Uncomfortable? You don’t have to participate in anything. But the good thing is that you can. Just make arrangements beforehand about what you can and cannot do, so your night out doesn’t end up in a nasty fight.

Make a campfire in the garden

Did you enjoy romantic sunsets by the campfire every night on holiday? Revive those feelings by lighting a fire in the garden! You can light a fire in a fire basket or even in your barbecue. It not only looks nice, but it also keeps you warm. And with a bit of fantasy, you’ll be mentally transported back to the beach.

Hot nights: watch a scary movie

Do you know what the advantage of watching a horror movie is? You can snuggle up close to your partner. There’s no safer place to watch a scary movie than in their arms.

Watch a porno film together

If you decide to watch an erotic film together, you’re sure to have a hot evening. Take some time to pick one which is also fun for women, so you’ll enjoy it too. And of course, you don’t have to watch the whole movie…

Also read: Porn and porna for women