What is lazy sex and why is it a taboo topic?

When you think about good sex, you probably picture two energetic people who try various sex positions and passionately make love to each other. But what most people don’t realise is that slow sex can be equally pleasurable. Sometimes you just want to have an orgasm without putting in too much effort, for example when you get up in the morning or when you’re in a relaxed state of mind. Lazy sex is the perfect solution! 

The main advantage of lazy sex

Lazy sex is a taboo topic; you’re supposed to give everything you have during sex and you need to be active and versatile. Lying on your back without moving much is a no-go. Or at least, that seems to be the norm. Fortunately, that is not reality. Lazy sex can even be good for your relationship! Especially for couples who leads busy lives because of work, children, sports, and other things, slow sex can be a solution. Physical connection is essential in keeping your relationship healthy. You don’t always have to nurture this with passionate, energetic sex.

The best lazy sex positions

‘Low-effort’ sex positions are perfect for maximum pleasure with minimal effort. Discover the extra level of connection when you decide to make love slowly and intimately with the following sex positions.

Sleepy Spoon

The Sleepy Spoon is perfect for lazy Sunday love-making on the sofa or in bed. Because you’re both lying on your side while your bodies touch, there is plenty of physical contact for you to get aroused. As a woman, you can feel his penis getting hard against your bum, while he touches your breasts and kisses your neck. This position is perfect for slow, sensual penetration. Both partners have their hands free for some extra pleasure without it taking a lot of extra effort.

Ready for even more excitement without putting too much energy into it? Try a duo vibrator and add pleasant vibrations. Warming lubricant makes lazy sex even hotter.

Sleepy Spoon

Chill Missionary

The old school Missionary position is considered the most vanilla option when it comes to sex positions. But even though it’s not special in any way, it’s still very enjoyable. And sometimes that is exactly what you need. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s a great position to try after sleeping in on your day off for example. Lie comfortably on your back, let your partner ‘glide inside’ and the rest will follow. Instead of putting your legs on his shoulders or any other movement that requires effort, it’s nice to simply lie back and make yourself as comfortable as possible.

Don’t focus on the movements, but on the sensations. If you only focus on the penetration itself, sooner or later you will feel an intense emotional and sexual connection. The advantage of the Missionary position is that you can easily look each other in the eyes and kiss each other.

Chill Missionary

Flat Doggy Style

This lazy sex position is the favourite position of many women. The only thing you have to do is lie on your belly and enjoy the penetration. The man leans on his elbows or hands in a push-up position. The rhythm and speed of penetration is mainly controlled by the man, so good communication is essential. This position makes it difficult to make eye contact and kiss each other, but sometimes that isn’t necessary. As a woman, you can signal your partner to slow down or speed up by lifting your hips up for example or by simply telling him what you like.

Flat Doggy is the perfect position if you’ve had a long day at work or if you’re tired from talking to people all day. There is no need to talk and you can simply enjoy that pure feeling of pleasure that sex provides.

Do you enjoy anal pleasure as well? This position is also great for using a vibrating butt plug. Double stimulation on a lazy Sunday; what more do you want?

Flat Doggy Style

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