Thigh job: what is it and how does it work?

Are you in the mood for experimenting in bed? If you and your partner haven’t yet discovered the world of thigh jobs together, now is the time to try it. A thigh job feels very similar to fucking and sucking, but it’s a little different: you’re penetrating your partner’s thighs. If you think this sounds boring: don’t knock it till you’ve tried it. Get the lubricant ready and pull those exciting accessories out of the closet. Before you get started, we recommend reading the tips below to make your thigh job a great success.

What is een thigh job?

A thigh job is simply stimulating your penis with your partner’s thighs. It is an intense stimulation without penetration. The feeling it gives is often compared to a blowjob, or anal or vaginal penetration. Of course, the difference is that the penis stays outside the partner’s body. The structure of the skin on the thighs feels different than the inside of a soft and wet vagina or mouth, which is what makes a thigh job so exciting. Good sex is about variation. And why wouldn’t you add a thigh job to the mix? The advantage of this sexual act is that is can be performed by both gay couples and hetero couples. It is even possible for two women to enjoy a thigh job!

This is how to perform a thigh job

Are you planning on pleasuring your husband or boyfriend with a thigh job? Start with foreplay that revolves around his penis. You want to build tension. So start by using your hand, alternate with your tongue, and seduce him by teasing him. Kiss, lick, suck, and wank. But don’t go too far, because he needs to delay his orgasm. Then start giving him a thigh job by moving the tip of his penis around the inside of your thigh. There are so many nerve endings on the inside of your thighs that you will experience sexual stimulation yourself as well. The easiest position for a thigh job is lying on your back and leaning on your elbows. Ask your partner to sit in between your legs. Are you ready for the next step? Close your thighs and let your partner thrust his hips, just like when he penetrates you. Alternate the speed, the power, and your position. Below you will find some more inspiration.

Positions for a thigh job

There are various positions you can try. Vary as much as possible. These are the best positions for a thigh job:

• Lapdance: the man is sitting or lying down and you are sitting on his lap like you are giving him a lapdance. Build up tension and then let his penis slide between your thighs. You are on top, so you can decide the speed and rhythm.
• Spooning: a well-known position. You and your partner are both lying on your side and your partner glides his penis between your thigh from behind.
• Missionary: another position you know well, but with a twist. If you both have become so incredibly aroused by doing this that you need to have sex right now, then just go for it.
• Standing thigh job: you can face each other or your partner can stand behind you.
• Doggy style: this position also work well for a thigh job.

Pleasuring your woman – as a woman

You can also pleasure a woman with a thigh job. Up until now we have only discussed pleasuring men, but a thigh job also works for women. Do you have a female partner? Then the best way of giving her a thigh job is by letting her sit on your lap and ride your leg. Sit on the edge of the sofa or bed, make sure your legs are slick by applying lubricant, and allow her to slide back and forth on your leg. Her clitoris will mainly be stimulated by your knee, while your thighs stimulate her vagina. There is no manual for giving a woman a thigh job, so your imagination is the best guide. Simply give in to it and the rest will follow.

This is what you need

In order to give your partner an enjoyable and exciting thigh job, you will need a couple of products:

• Indispensable in any case: lubricant. Your thighs are not naturally slick, so make sure they are wet and smooth, so your partner’s penis can effortlessly glide between them. Stimulating lubricant is perfect for your thighs. Trying a lovely warming or tingling, cooling gel is definitely worth it.
• Sexy stockings or suspenders provide even more sexual tension. The texture of your lingerie in combination with your soft thighs offer extra stimulation.
• If you want to spend a couple of enjoyable hours together, it is important to slowly build up tension and arousal. It is not just about the thigh job, but about the whole experience. Create the right ambience and put some effort into foreplay. A massage set or massage candles are always a good idea.
• Don’t forget to put on sexy lingerie. A thigh job is all about your legs, so why not dress for the occassion? And something like vibrating panties even offers double stimulation.