How to do a sexy striptease: 9 tips

Performing a sexy striptease is quite challenging when you’re not a professional dancer. But even when you have no rhythmic bone in your body, you can still treat your partner to a seductive striptease. Both men and women enjoy a sexy dance performed by their partner! It’s not just about the moves. Being confident and enjoying your own show is much sexier than a couple of smooth movements. Do you want to surprise your lover? Read these tips to find out how to do a sexy striptease.

1. Sexy striptease? Create the right ambience!

A sensual ambience helps a lot when performing a striptease. We don’t mean you have to put a stripper pole in your bedroom, but dimmed lights, candles that light up the room, a sensual scent, and smooth music with a pleasant beat immediately create the right ambience. Create a playlist with the sexiest songs you know. Make sure your lover has a good place to sit. Preferably on a chair without armrests, so you can sit on his or her lap. And make sure to give yourself enough room to use as a stage! Doing a sexy striptease is all about creating an experience. Make the room cosy and make sure it smells like sex. As soon as your partner enters the room, they will know something exciting is about to happen.

2. Making a striptease hot: be confident

There’s nothing that’s more sexy than a confident partner. So make sure you feel confident before doing a striptease. You know the person you’re dancing for wants you, so act like it. Take control, sit your your partner down in the right place, and start the show! Begin with slow sexy movements and think about your next move. Tease, arouse, and stop when you’re partner wants more. Is confidence difficult for you? Try to pretend you’re someone else. Acting like another person makes it easier to be confident. You can also put on an outfit that fits your roleplay.

3. Use clothing to tease your partner

It doesn’t matter if your sexy striptease is planned or starts spontaneously, always use your clothing. Start from the top and work your way down. If you’re wearing a tie, seductively loosen it and use it to tie your partner’s hands behind their back. Are you wearing a flowy dress or loose trousers? Undo the buttons, let it glide down to the floor, throw it on the ground, kick off your high heels: this all makes your sexy striptease even more exciting. However, don’t take off your clothes too quickly! You want your show to last, and if you get undressed too quickly, you might feel a little self-conscious. Besides: if you’re wearing your best pair of boxershorts or a sexy bra set, you can leave something to the imagination.

4. Practise your moves in the mirror

A sexy striptease involves difficult moves, that’s just the way it is. So sway your hips while you’re dancing and while you’re sitting on your partner’s lap. Gaze at your partner seductively while unbuttoning your clothes. Be sexy and confident. You’re not a professional, remember? So it doesn’t have to be perfect right away. But being seductive, you know how to do that! Practise in front of a mirror beforehand and watch your moves and your gaze. That’s how you will bring out the best in yourself.

5. How do I move during a sexy striptease?

The more you can be yourself during a striptease, the more passionate it will get. Don’t think about which dance moves you’re going to do beforehand. Move like you always do when you dance. Don’t be ashamed and have fun. Sit your lover down on a chair, turn on the music, and begin. Sit on his or her lap, slide your bum over your lover’s genitals, and then get up to begin your striptease. In a seductive way of course. Move on the floor while taking off your stockings or your jeans. Both men and women look very sexy if they’re twisting their hips, which is great to look at from all angles. Do you want to take your trousers off in a sexy way? Bend over so that your partner can take a good look at your bum.

6. Be a dominant teaser

If you want your partner to touch you, just tell them and encourage him or her. Do you want your lover to keep their hands off your body? Tie them up. You’re the dominant partner right now. You decide the rules and what your partner is or isn’t allowed to do. It’s all about you today. You can even use your sex toys in your striptease. Are you going to wear a tough BDSM-outfit or are you going to do the striptease in your own clothes? Be yourself and be the leader: nothing is sexier than that.

7. Don’t be afraid to touch yourself

Touch yourself wherever you want your partner to look. Believe us: he or she will follow your movements closely. Towards the end of the striptease, tension will build: touch your sensitive spots. Just for a moment at first, then more and more often, and don’t be afraid to stimulate yourself. Watching you pleasure yourself can arouse a lot of passionate sensations in your partner. You can decide that your partner can touch you at that point by getting on his or her lap.

8. Learn how to striptease from the best

Watch triptease videos and burlesque performances. You can get inspiration from watching professionals like Dita von Teese. YouTube is filled with burlesque shows with male dancers. Or you can watch films like Magic Mike for inspiration. It’s perfectly fine to copy dance moves and sexy movements. And your partner won’t know about it, unless you watch the aforementioned videos together of course. Watching inspiring videos online is fun too!

9. Strip, dance, laugh, and enjoy

What you absolutely shouldn’t forget when doing a sexy striptease is to enjoy yourself. Don’t think, don’t worry about your belly fat or anything like that, and just go for it. Of course, you may feel uncomfortable if things don’t go the way you planned. So be it! Laugh about it, and always try to see the bright side. It’s a challenge to do a sexy dance, strip off your clothes seductively, and look (and feel) attractive. Just go for it. And again, practice makes perfect.

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