10 reasons why having a summer fling is great

Summer love is magical, but it usually ends when you eventually have to pack your bags and go back home. That doesn’t mean that the love wasn’t real however. The warm feelings you experience during a summer fling can light a passionate fire within just a few days. Warm summer nights, romantic sunsets, and dancing till the sun comes up: everything is more fun (and hotter) if you can share it with someone. Just leave all your worries for the future behind and enjoy the here and now. We could think of at least ten reasons why a summer fling is great and we’d like to share them with you!

1. Get on the rollercoaster of passion and lust

Weeks, sometimes months go by before you’ve build up a relationship in your everyday life. Why not try something different for a change? A summer love can be compared to the fastest Ferrari. A unique experience, especially when you’re used to driving a practical car every day. Love, romance, passion, and lust: you’ll experience it all within just one summer. After just a couple of days, you will be inseparable and that will feel amazing.

2. Love makes life more beautiful

It may sound unlikely, but it really is possible to fall in love with someone during a short trip. Sometimes you even know you’re in love after just two days. Love makes life more beautiful. Why would you keep that interesting man or woman you just met at a distance if you can have an unforgettable holiday together? Don’t think about what will happen when you go back home after your holiday. Don’t worry about whether your summer love will fade or become something more. Whatever happens happens. Enjoy! And simply go with the flow.

3. Romantic sunset with your summer love

Watching the sun set at a unique holiday destination is a romantic scene that will give you a peaceful feeling. Imagine your favourite sunset. Imagine a great summer love, an intimate location where you can be close to you lover, sharing a bottle of your favourite drink… Life is good. These moments will fill you with pure joy.

4. Dancing together: the tension builds

Holidays often involve food, cocktails, and going to a club in the evening. Will you be passive or are you going to give it your all? Feel the rhythm of the music, hold your lover tight, and dance like your life depends on it. Hold each other, move together, get your heart rate up, and don’t be afraid to sweat. This is definitely a different experience than you’re used to back home. Nothing matters anymore, everything around you disappears. Dancing with your lover is like long-lasting foreplay: things will heat up more and more and you’ll only have eyes for each other. Go for a warm destination, like Brasil, to find the best dancing partner.

5. Feeling sexy because of your summer fling

Tanned skin, airy summer clothes, a positive vibe, and attention from others. These are factors that make you feel very sexy and confident. Receiving special attention from that certain someone can make you feel like you can conquer the world.

6. Nothing but a good time

You don’t have to wash his or her underwear, there are no household chores, and you don’t have to go to work. It’s time for nothing but a good time. Go for it together. The weather is perfect and your surroundings are fantastic. You have all the time and space you need to get to know your lover. There’s no stress, just lust.

7. Enjoy your hot partner

A summer love doesn’t usually last beyond summer. And that’s fine. So it’s essential that you enjoy your lover while you can. They look fantastic, and maybe they even have a body you could only dream of. And you get to be their partner, even if it’s just for a moment.

8. Unforgettable and surprising sex

One lover may be passionate, while the other is galant, and sometimes you even meet someone that constantly makes you smile. In every corner of the world, you will meet lovers who have their own style and their own culture. Let them take you on a ride with their advances. Enjoy the blooming love and the intimate moments that go with it. Sex on holiday is even more intense and arousing than at home, especially when you experience new sensations. The skills your lover has in bed that are unknown to you can be overwhelming and that is amazing. Let them surprise you, give in to it, and never forget these moments you have together. Chances are that you feel less shame than with a regular lover and are therefore able to let go more and open yourself up to new experiences.

9. A short summer fling has its benefits

You usually leave your summer fling on the beach, in the mountains, or wherever you’ve spend your holiday. A summer fling is often made up of solely beautiful moments thanks to its fleeting and stormy nature. There’s no time for problems as you will have to say goodbye soon. If you’re not ready to say goodbye at the end, just keep in contact with each other. But you don’t have to. It’s good and sometimes even liberating to say: this was fantastic, but now it’s time for both of us to move on with our lives.

10. Your biggest dilemma is choosing a cocktail

Sun-filled days, moon-lit nights. Nothing to worry or think about, except which cocktail you want to try next. You want to take a nap together after swimming in the ocean all day? You want to have amazing sex with each other? Everything is possible. Even cynical people transform into hopeless romantics after experiencing a summer fling. It can be addictive. A summer love and all that comes with it can make you high on attention and love. On to the next holiday! And don’t forget to bring condoms.

Saying goodbye to your summer love: now what?

When it’s time to say goodbye, you have two choices: will it end here or will you stay in contact? It’s probably easier to make that choice if you know whether your lover has had more flings that summer or if they only had eyes for you. Do you live close together? Is this summer fling serious enough that we both want to try our best to make the relationship work? If you can see a future together, then go for it. The good thing is that it’s easy to keep in contact with someone nowadays thanks to text messaging apps and social media. Is your lover a Casanova who works as a club promotor on Ibiza? Then the future of your relationship is probably less bright. Be okay with saying goodbye to your summer fling and fondly remember the good times you had.