The best sex positions for gay men

Has your sex life dozed off a little or have you just started discovering what it’s like to have sex with another man? If you want to experiment with various sex positions, this blog post is for you. Whether you’re going for a classic sex position with a twist, playing with butt plugs or vibrators during oral sex, or a completely different and challenging sex position, anything is possible as long as it feels good. Let the various sex positions below inspire you. The only thing you need is anal lubricant!

The classic missionary position

As a gay couple, you can have a lot of fun with this sex position. In the missionary position, one partner lies on his back with his legs spread in the air, while the other partner lies on top. The best thing about this position is that it makes deep penetration possible. Also, there’s a lot of eye contact with your partner, there’s room for kissing, and you can tangle your legs together. Putting a pillow under your hips makes this position more comfortable and makes it easier for your partner to penetrate you.

The Bodyguard

If the well-know horizontal sex positions don’t really turn you on, try experimenting with standing sex positions. The Bodyguard is a position that gives you freedom of movement. Move together or on your own, while one of you controls the thrusting rhythm.

In this sex position, one partner kneels on the edge of the bed or kitchen table, with his back to his partner. Make sure the bed or table is sturdy enough to prevent accidents. The Bodyguard is great for adventurous couples who also enjoy having sex outside the bedroom.

The Joy Rider

This acrobatic version of Doggy Style is perfect for adventurous (and muscular) gay couples. Start in the classic Doggy Style position. Once you get going, the one standing behind his partner takes his partner by his waist and lifts him up. His partner then puts his legs around him and leans on his elbows. Let the fun begin! And don’t forget to hold each other tightly.

Spooning

Spooning is one of the classic positions that is indispensable on this list, simply because this position is just so romantic. Spooning is an intimate way of enjoying each other’s love and body. In this sex position both partners lie on their side in the same direction, lying closely together like two spoons. You can control the rhythm and depth of penetration together.

If you want extra deep penetration, the partner lying at the front can pull his partner’s knee up (hook your arm around his knee), so your anus is easily accessible to your partner. This position offers intense physical contact, which makes it a great option for couples who enjoy intimate and sensual sex. Tip: take turns in each position or use a vibrator.

Position 69

Practically everyone has heard of position 69. For many years, this is the classic oral sex position for every couple. The best thing about it is that it isn’t just about giving a blowjob, the trick is to make it twice as pleasurable by focussing on other areas. Insert a butt plug for extra stimulation of the anus or use a vibrator that stimulates the prostate from the inside.

Use your hands to caress your partner. Your tongue and mouth are not just for stimulating his penis, so lick his balls, kiss his inner thighs, and play with his nipples. This proves that penetration isn’t always necessary to experience an overwhelming orgasm.

The Rusty Trombone

The sex position offers great pleasure to both partner. The Rusty Trombone is similar to position 69. You just have to be a little more flexible to succesfully perform the Rusty Trombone. In this posistion, one partner lies on his back and the other gets on top of him, just like in position 69.

The main difference is that the one on top isn’t on his knees, but sits with his legs straight. This allows his partner to lick his anus or balls, while the one on top can pleasure him with a blowjob. Win-win!

Cowboy

Find your inner cowboy and go for a rodeo ride! Sit on top of your partner, facing him. Slowly slide backwards until your partner can penetrate you. Even though he is the one penetrating you, you are the one in control. Determine the rhythm and depth of penetration and use your hands to caress and stimulate your partner. You’re a free cowboy now who can move in any direction. You can bend forward and kiss your partner of lean back against his knees for example.

Reverse Cowboy

Of course, the Cowboy sex position is also possible in reverse. Reverse Cowboy is the same sex position as explained above, but with your back turned to your partner. This position is great for stimulating the prostate by squeezing your buttocks together. And if you lie back on your partner’s body, you can make it even more intimate.

The Bow

Last but not least, a sex position for men who want to experience sex from a new perspective: The Bow. Sit on the ground with your knees wide. Ask your partner to sit between your legs, facing you, and to put his legs around your waist. This sex position requires strength and flexibility. Pull each other close and penetrate your partner. Play with each other and don’t just use your penis, but also your fingers, a vibrator, a dildo, or another sex toy. The penetration angle in The Bow sex position offers intense stimulation and great pleasure to both partners.