The best sex positions for couples with a height difference

Having sex while there is a significant height different between you and your partner can be challenging. Kissing and cuddling, as well as various sex positions, are almost impossible without standing on a stool to make up for the difference. In order to make it easier, or at least more enjoyable, you can try a sex position that is great for couples with a significant height difference. We will explain a couple of these positions below.

The Frog King

This sex position works well for every couple, height isn’t important here. With this position, one partner lies on their back, while the other squats on top of them, facing their partner. It doesn’t matter if the tallest or shortest person is on top. The one on top is in control and decides the rhythm and depth of penetration. This position is great for both anal and vaginal penetration, either with a penis or a strap-on dildo.

Reverse Cowgirl

The well-known Reverse Cowgirl is the perfect sex position if your partner is significantly taller or shorter than you. It is similar to the Frog King, except that you don’t face each other. One partner sits on top with their back turned to their partner. This position is a little more relaxed, because you don’t have squat. Rock back and forth in your own rhythm during penetration.

To the moon and back

Lie with your their hips on the edge of the bed and spread your legs wide, placing them on your partner’s shoulders. Can’t reach? Use a position pillow to lift your body. Your partner bends over you, holds your bum, and penetrates you with their penis or strap-on dildo. This is a pleasant and simple sex position where the one on the bottom can use their hands to caress and stimulate various sensitive spots.

Doggy Style

Use the edge of the sofa or the bed to support your body while performing Doggy Style. Also use a couple of pillows if necessary. The shortest partner lies on their belly, so the other partner can penetrate them from behind. This makes penetration much more comfortable because of the angle. If one partner is really tall, experimenting with the angle of penetration in this sex position is recommended.

Lift each other up

Standing sex positions are tricky when your height difference is significant. But there is one position that is absolutely perfect: the Sandwich. Side note: this position is only suitable if the tallest person is the one who penetrates. Lift your partner up by their hips and push them passionately against the wall. This requires quite a lot of strength and effort, but we promise it will be worth it. This position offers blissful pleasure in an intimate and intense sexual moment.

Spooning

This position is always a good choice for every couple and it’s an ideal sex position for couples with a height difference as well. Lie on your side on the bed with your partner closely behind you. This sex position is very comfortable and pleasurable for both of you. In addition, the erogenous area of the person being penetrated is fully accessible for extra pleasure.

Yab yum

Sit on the floor with your legs crossed and ask your partner to sit on your lap. Your partner puts their legs around you. This combines two important aspects of sex: eye contact and a comfortable position for both partners. The one sitting in a crossed-leg position penetrates their partner. Tip: don’t just use your penis or strap-on dildo, but also use a vibrator or anal beads. If both of you are women, you can even use a double dildo. Look into each other’s eyes. This creates an intimacy that allows you to completely focus on each other.

Oral sex

Sideways 69 is a perfect sex position for oral sex. Both partners lie on their side in the shape of an O. This way you can easily reach your partner’s erogenous zones, without having to bend over or lift your head up.

Tabletop

A table, the edge of a (firm) sofa, or the kitchen counter: if one of you is really tall, then Tabletop is the perfect sex position for you. One person lies on the dining table or kitchen counter for example, while their partner stands close to the edge to penetrate them. This sex position is also good for Doggy Style. In that case, the first partner lies on their belly on the edge of the sofa or kitchen counter, while the other partner stands behind them.

The Wheelbarrow

The main advantage of the Wheelbarrow is that it’s not just enjoyable, but also trains your arm muscles. One person places their arms on the floor to support their body weight, while their partner lifts their legs off the ground. The one standing up can now penetrate their partner. This sex position a quite a challenge, but that is also what makes it fun. If you can’t do it and it fails completely, at least you have something to laugh about afterwards!